Your big day’s approaching and there’s so much to do! From picking a venue to choosing the right outfits, and let’s not even talk about the hantaran and honeymoon (for a moment). It might seem like a whole mess, and you may not know where to start just yet - but hey, we’ve got your back. Here’s your guide to planning a Malay-Muslim wedding in Singapore!

Compulsory Documents

1. Marriage Preparation Course

Traditional wedding ceremony with guests seated on white floor cushions and candles decorating the space.
Traditional wedding ceremony with participants seated on white floor cushions surrounded by floral decorations.

Before getting married, Singapore requires you to do a Marriage Preparation Course. The 2-day course held at Islamic organisations and mosques involves learning how to live together, financial and family planning, and even conflict resolution!


And although the course is no longer compulsory, it is highly encouraged that you attend it before getting married.

2. Marriage Registration

Couple in traditional white attire sharing a tender moment during wedding ceremony.
Close-up of bride in white hijab and traditional dress showing henna-decorated hands.

Just like every couple in Singapore, Malay Muslim couples also have to register their marriage at the Registry of Marriage for Muslims (ROMM). Items you’ll need to have ready before registering your marriage include your NRIC, the names and IC of your witnesses and wali (male guardian) and the address of your nikah (solemnisation) venue. 

Pre-Wedding Needs

3. Hantaran & Mahr (Mas Kahwin)

People gathered around a table sharing food and conversation during a celebration.
Close-up shots of hands exchanging rings during an intimate ceremony.
A person in light blue attire sits elegantly with flowers in a decorated indoor setting.

If your families are a little more traditional, you might observe the merisik (visit and observe) and meminang & bertunang (proposal and engagement) events pre-solemnisation. It is during the merisik and meminang stages that your families will discuss your hantaran and mahr.

A group celebration scene with people interacting and posing together indoors.

The hantaran is a gift from the groom to the bride’s family that will be used to spend on the wedding costs for the couple, or as a form of security for the bride’s parents’ confidence in the groom. The hantaran is an optional gift, and it is often up to the families to set a price, or forgo it completely. 


The mahr, however, is a compulsory gift in Islam by the groom to the bride. It can come in the form of money or items chosen by the bride.

4. Henna Party

Close-up view of intricate henna designs on hands with white hijab and dress in soft lighting.
Detailed view of traditional henna patterns on hands resting on floral fabric.

Now that we’ve gotten the technicalities out of the way, let’s talk about the henna party! In Singapore, many Muslim brides embellish their hands with henna tattoos and designs a few nights before the solemnisation. Nowadays, this cultural tradition is also celebrated in conjunction with the bachelorette party. 


If you’re looking for some amazing henna artists, be sure to check out @zeehenna and @itshennaflair . @Itshennaflair even has cute TikTok videos that show you how your henna night will go, even before the henna night itself as well as behind the scenes works!

Wedding celebration group photo with guests wearing coordinated pink and beige outfits.

5. Pre-Wedding Photography

A couple in white traditional outfits stands together in a concrete tunnel.

A marriage is more than just a wedding. It’s about the bond you have together, the life you’re about to build, and the shared memories you love and cherish. Which is why it’s so important to capture your love and your memories, so you can always look back and reminisce about your relationship’s growth. And what could be a better way to do that than to have a pre-wedding photography session? 


Check out our pre-wedding location recommendations here for some inspiration! 


'Alia & Adam's pre-wedding photography session was pack-filled with fun and memories:

A couple in light colored traditional outfits holds hands in a garden setting.
A couple enjoys a romantic picnic outdoors with gifts and treats.

Preparation For The Big Day

6. Outfits

A bride in an intricate white lace wedding dress adjusts her earring.
A person in an elegant all-white traditional Malay wedding outfit poses indoors.

Your bridal wear is a large part of your wedding experience. As the belle of the ball and the star of the show, pick outfits that you feel confident and comfortable in! Options to get your outfits include rentals from boutiques, or getting a custom made set if you want something unique. Just take a look at Shafiq & Dinda's gorgeous wedding costumes!

Two people in matching white outfits seated on decorated stage with floral arrangements.

While we’re here, a good accessory to a bride’s costume is the bouquet, so make sure to add that to your wedding to-do list: you’ve got to get a florist!  We recommend checking out @thenaturehues and @shadeandhueflora on Instagram. Their bouquets are modern, bright and eclectic!

7. Venue

Wedding ceremony participants seated in elegant white-draped venue with floral decorations.
Couple in matching white wedding attire holding bouquet against draped white backdrop.

When you think of a Malay Muslim wedding in Singapore, two words probably come to mind: warm and lively! Often filled with music, laughter and your loved ones intermingling and celebrating your day together, your venue is an important part of your wedding. So be sure to choose a spot that’s got the decor and pelamin you’d love, and of course a large enough size to accommodate all your guests!

 

Shafiq & Dinda's venue, Anggun on Stevens, was definitely one for the books: 

Wedding reception in elegant ballroom with crystal chandeliers and white decor.

If you don't want to stress about finding all the vendors for your event, then look out for wedding venues that offer all-inclusive packages. We at Natasha Kasim Photography are the current photo + video partners for The Iris City Plaza, The Cove City Plaza, Amaris D Arena, Grand Dahlia, Lagun Sari & The White Label. Do enquire with the venue directly if you would like to know more about the all inclusive packages they offer. From Venue, Deco, Catering, Bridal, Emcee etc. they have you covered so you don't have to stress about the wedding planning!

8. Guestlist

A group of wedding guests celebrate and cheer during a reception.

Speaking of guests, it’s important that you finalise your guestlist at least 4-5 months advance if you’re having a covid wedding, where sessions are in order. Many couples have separated their guestlist into parts. Eg. Friends, close family, extended family… That way, when the guestlist is divided up into sessions, your guests will be around familiar people, and your wedding reception sessions will be fun and lively. 


Finalising your guestlist 4-5 months in advance also gives your wedding card vendor enough time to print the wedding invites (and then for you to send them out)! @kaduo.co takes 1 month to get them design and printed at affordable prices, so you should definitely consider them for your wedding.

9. Schedules

Bride in a sparkling ball gown with long sleeves and tiara posing in an elegant white setting.
Black and white photo of newlyweds cutting their wedding cake together.

From when to walk down the aisle and greet your guests to when the food should be served, some weddings require you to note these details down to the minute. Especially if your reception has been divided up into sessions, and there needs to be enough time for everyone to eat, mingle and take photos with you. Not to mention your speeches and cake cutting session!

Couple in formal attire cutting an elegant white wedding cake decorated with flowers against a floral backdrop.

It’s definitely something to keep in mind if you want everything to go smoothly. This way, your bridesmaids, groomsmen, vendors and family members will also know what to do and when on the day itself.

10. Wedding Photography

Wedding couple holding hands in a greenhouse setting with white decor and natural light.

This list would be amiss without your wedding photographers and videographers! The best way to capture your day, don’t forget to pick the right photographers and videographers for your wedding. They’ll be in charge of capturing your memories, intimate moments, and events of the day - so you can look back on your wedding day years from now! 


Natasha Kasim Photography offers both photography & videography services to make sure you have full coverage of your wedding day.


Ili & Afiq’s shoot on their wedding was definitely a memorable one:

Romantic moment between newlyweds sharing drinks in an elegant white interior.
Intimate wedding portrait by white balustrade in bright interior setting.

You might also want to look into a post-wedding photography service to commemorate your marriage. If you’re not sure what a post-wedding photography session entails though, feel free to check out our article on it here, or reach out to us on Instagram. We’ll be happy to help you get ready for your wedding shoot.


There are so many things to consider while planning a wedding, but we hope that with this guide, you’ll know exactly where to start!

About us


We are from Natasha Kasim Photography and are wedding photographers & videographers based in Singapore who are deeply passionate about capturing dreamy and intimate moments. We capture weddings for all races and religions including but not limited to Malay/Muslim weddings, Indian weddings and Chinese weddings. 


For our rate card, contact us @natashakasimphotography on Instagram or enquire via our email at hello@natashakasimphotography.com.

“Natasha Kasim Photography was really professional and soooo patient throughout the whole process. Weddings can be really chaotic, but she was so cool about it! And her photos turned out amazing, we shared some with our guests and they loved them too!! Thank you for capturing all our special moments, it was so lovely to have you.”

Nikii x Khair’s Actual Day Wedding

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Wedding details showing henna-decorated hands with floral bouquet on white lace dress.